Frustrated with dating life
No longer do I feel like the stakes are against me, nor do I feel the frustration I felt for years on end.
When learning to play guitar, I wanted to play multiple songs right away. We often equate having fun with having it all right away.
If they follow what society tells them to do, they often end up "good guys" who are taken advantage of, mistreated, and disrespected.
In contrast, if they follow more "assertive" biological imperatives, they are labeled "jerks" and "players"—who may get sexual gratification, but not love or respect from what they would consider a "good woman".
While learning to play the guitar, I had some powerful realizations about the romantic relationships in my life.
These realizations have completely transformed the way I now approach my dating life.
In that article, I explained my hypothesis that women are stuck in a double-bind between what they are told through modern social norms and their own biological motivation.Overall, they report that there is often little incentive for men to date and even less for them to consider long-term commitments.In a previous article, I put forward the notion that individuals were not "afraid" to date—rather they simply did not have sufficient incentive to do so (see here).Last week, we sent out a survey to 70,000 guys on our mailing list, asking three simple questions about their dating lives. Hundreds of guys filled out the survey, sharing their biggest frustrations, obstacles and goals.And the answers we got were inspiring, fascinating and gave us some great information we're going to use to give you guys better advice.