Rules for dating your sister
It's tempting just to write down "denial" and "white wine" and leave it at that.
So I took a look at the last several decades of my relationships with my sisters and discovered four behavioral tactics that have really made all the difference. Let's be clear, I am not a psychologist or an officer of the law.
We live in five different cities in three different states.
We are married, single, divorced; kids, no kids; apartment-dwellers, homeowners; dog lovers, allergic to dogs; teachers, nurses, executives; grandmothers, aunts; conservatives, moderates, liberal and politically uninvolved.
From there on out, you must support your friends until they achieve their ultimate goal, whatever that may be *as long as it’s consensual*.
[Read: How to choose the perfect wingman while meeting women] #11 Speedos are out.
You are as strong as your weakest link, and he’s hitting an all-time low, so get that guy back in the saddle. A man shall not take the urinal beside another man.
If your friend is wearing a neon green polo with pink shoes, you are obligated to tell him he looks horrible.
Henceforth, you will be a Tinder master, and you'll swap unsuccessful 3 a.m.You certainly wouldn't be happy if someone did that to you, so set a good example for others -- and for yourself.At some point, somebody you're not tight with is going to question the integrity of one of your friends.Figure out what those things are and think hard about who you want to be, then present yourself honestly and genuinely to the people you hang around with.Sometimes you're going to disagree or not be the most popular member of the group.